Love is amazing…isn’t it? When it is good it is remarkable… miraculous… mind-blowing. Ohhhhh but when it is bad…it is devastating! Love is such a powerful yet complicated phenomena…it can take you to the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. If you are reading this I can assume, unfortunately, that you are at a low point. I am so sorry because I know that having problems in your relationship can cause problems in your life…big problems! What do you say we fix those problems right now and in turn, fix your life! I know it is hard to do anything right now. You are feeling defeated and broken but please know that you can fix your relationship. You do not have to lose the love of your life. You are going to win this battle and you will be happier than you have ever been in your entire life.
Not long ago my husband asked me for a separation. I can honestly tell you that I never saw it coming! He was the love of my life, the father or my children, the person that I went to when the world was attacking me. I felt absolutely flabbergasted and betrayed…I had no idea how this could be happening to ME!?!? Now looking back, I should have seen it coming. My husband and I stopped communicating and that was the beginning of the end. It is impossible for you to have the relationship of your dreams without communication…impossible! If you have a difficulty with something your mate has done or said… you have to tell him. It sounds so easy but it is not. I used to hint to my husband, imply things, allude to problems, maybe even mention a thing or two but I never communicated with him. By communicate I mean ‘connect’ with him. I never made sure that he completely understood my stance and to be fair I was never certain that he understood what I was trying to convey to him either.
Communication problems lead to a relationship full of holes and cracks in the foundation of your union. Your relationship can not stand if the very foundation of it is crumbling around you. I talk with people all of the time who tell me that their sex life lacks passion and fervor. I ask them if they communicate that fact to their partner and time and time again I get the same answer…’he/she knows what I like’. Please understand that if you are having problems in bed then your mate does not know what you like. You may think that they know but if you do not have the sex life of your dreams…they do not know! Think of the fun and excitement that the two of you will experience when you make that connection and discover together what you both truly want in the sensuality department.
You will then realize that you never had a sex problem at all…you had a communication gap. I suggest that you take whatever is bothering you right now and go to your mate. Connect with your love…really connect…and I promise you will be well on your way to not only fixing your relationship but turning it into a fairytale!
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He looked like the regular type of hobo you see in the street. In a heavy trench coat dirty and with of course a shopping cart at his side. I assumed he mustve been a drug addict or a Vietnamese veteran. Its so weird how different these two people can be but can also be said in the same sentence. One is a negative reference and the other an honorable name. But thats what America does to its people sometimes. As a journalist I was asked to define the true essence of the greatest city of America… New York. What could possibly be the best way to find this out Of course it would mean to ask the people who knew the inner workings of this city the most the homeless. So I interviewed many of them. Every single one of them was worthy of my paper but only one had captured my heart Hello dear friend what is your name Dreary and eyes shielded with an opaque sheet he looked away. I said hello sir what is your name I am trying to write an article on the people of this city and you seem to be quite the candidate for my main study. So if you could please tell me your name and answer a few questions Ill buy you a cheeseburger. Let me tell you something son the mention of my name will do nothing but curse your article I have never helped anyone in my life and I sure as hell cannot help you. Said the hobo. Please sir — I beg of you– tell me your name. I will not tell you my name but I will tell you my story I really wasnt ready to listen to his story because I thought he was just a crazy old man but the truth was he wasnt at all like that. He was a veteran of the Vietnamese war; he left his wife at the age of 18. Not at all ready to fight nor had the hands of a killer. He witnessed many deaths and murdered many men but when it was time to come home he couldnt wait to be with his one true love. To grasp what was his. To kiss her tender lips. And love a human being. He told me the two decided to go to get some dinnera few days after his return. For a split second he turned away to light his cigarette but when he went back to her she was nowhere in sight. After a few days the police reported that a woman was found in the back of a garbage disposal to his dismay it was his Elizabeth. Although the veteran had been in a war and fought for his country his heart had been torn in two. This pain he endeared was nothing to what he had seen or experienced in Vietnam. With no family and nowhere to go he heavily depended on alcohol and drugs to attain a sweet numbness. Then one day there was a foreclosure on his house. He told me that everything he had ever had he sold for drugs and anytime he would get money he used it on drugs. I truly believed him because if you saw the state he was in you would automatically think the guy was a lowlife druggie. But when I looked down at his palms I noticed he was holding something shiny in his hand. What is that in your hand He responded This is the best drug I ever had its the only memory I have of my wife. Her wedding ring. This was the first and last conversation I ever had with him after twenty five years of remaining on the same avenue he wasnt there anymore. Everyone always thinks New York fashion capital of America! New York the city that never sleeps! but its more than thatIt contains Americans people who have strived for this country for years who have endure many heart wrenching pain and no matter who you run into they have a story to tell.
oh i forgot to mention tht it could only be one page long so i couldnt put in to much so i purposefully jumped into things.
charles h many veterans were junkies…. and not to mention i live in new york… I know how these things are.
im going to be honest it dosent grab my attention at all. it was pretty boring and not really intresting. keep trying though! good luck 
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Possibly that’s the reason they substitute poetry and thoughtful gestures with inexpensive Valentine’s Day cards. ”
But does the modern day metrosexUal man also shy away from expressing his appreciate for any lady in text Design Steve Buckner feels he isn’t going to. “For the young adult males in cities it is not an issue stating ‘I really like you’. But I can recognize the way it may be tough with the conservative and traditional person. He may really feel foolish saying the text pondering that it is likely to make him appear weak.
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