Is money tearing you apart? You know, it is not that uncommon nowadays for the dreaded word ‘money’ to have such a huge and oftentimes ‘negative’ impact on an otherwise healthy relationship.
There are many reasons why money can start to unravel the best of relationships. Many times (as with sex) it is because the couples (I’m assuming man and woman here for the sake of simplicity) have differing views on the subject. With sex, it’s a difference in appetite and so it is with money. The man for example will be careful with money (whilst you think he’s tight or mean) and you on the other hand want to ‘live for today’ and enjoy manicures and lunches with the girls whenever you feel like it. You work just as hard as he does right? So you feel you’re entitled. Meanwhile he thinks you’re completely irresponsible.
It’s a sad state of affairs and it’s such a shame that many relationships (outside of finances) are really pretty good on all other fronts.
Of course it could be rather more serious in that he’s a gambler or that you’re a shopaholic. In these cases of course (as with any addiction), then professional and expert help needs to be sought to fully address and work through the problem.
But, if it’s a case of (as earlier mentioned) a difference of opinion on the subject of money, as in, one of you is more careful than the other, then you should in theory, be able to compromise and meet in the middle. Note, if you try to ‘force’ another person to ‘have’ your own opinion, take it from me, it will not be ‘genuine’, nor will the change of mind last. So you might as well get it right first time, by agreeing to compromise. This is the healthy way to go and will undoubtedly have much more positive effect overall.
You want the outcome to be one that you can ‘both’ live happily and comfortably with. Easier said than done I know, but you should always try to resolve any money matters before you get hitched. That goes without saying but you’d be amazed at how many couples get married and resolve to deal with the financial aspects ‘after’ the wedding. And then the fireworks really fly! And then each partner starts to wonder just ‘who’ this person is they married…
So, do yourself a favor. If money is tearing you apart, you can definitely ‘fix’ the problem but you ‘both’ need to be willing to sit down and discuss it openly and calmly and make the decision that you commit to working out your finances together. It doesn’t mean you have to share each other’s pay check but it does mean that if one of you tips the balance and upsets the household because of your spending, then you need to sort this one out, for the sake of your relationship, a better relationship that is.
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Further Reading
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Submitted Questions
So was George Washington a whiny wimpy bleeding heart lefty liberal for his views on treatment of POW’s
During the Revolutionary War George Washington forbade mistreatment of POW’s even thought the British and Hessians killed innocent American civilians had a tendency to abuse and execute captured American rebel troops.
The logic used to justify mistreatment of Iraqi Pow’s and terror suspects is the same the British used during the Revolutionary War. American rebel troops did not follow the normal rules of engagement. They did not always wear uniforms and hid among civilians.
Washington said “We are fighting for a cause and our cause requires that we behave with honor.”
He also told his troops that by treating POW’s humanely they could be convinced to join the American cause.
Do terrorist deserve humane treatment No.
Should they be treated humanely anyway Yes.
Why Because that is what separates us from them. That is what makes us the good guys and them the bad guys.
Dsatt57 this isn’t a rhetorical question. It’s a real one. I’m asking if the people who advocate torture today and look down on those who don’t feel the same way about George Washington.
I agree completely. If we act like the enemy we ARE the enemy
Random Thought of the Day
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