Deciding whether to fix relationship problems or just to cut ties and move onward, you have a big decision in front of you. Sure, love is a factor in what happens to your relationship, but it isn’t the only factor. We invest time, effort, and energy into our relationships and we do tend to consider our life goals and our commitment level when we are deciding how to proceed in a troubled relationship.
The idea of commitment no matter what is somewhat like trying to squeeze your life into a fairy tale. There are some things that simply will impact the quality of your life and your relationship enough that you might not feel like you can be fair by staying. While only you can really determine what those factors are, things like gambling addictions, infidelity, and alcoholism can be determining factors.
Since there is no actual right answer, you may very well end up feeling frustrated and angry over the condition of your relationship. It’s only when we can take a step back that we start to see things for what they really are. If we are able to listen to our inner voice we actually know what we believe is best. The problem is we tend to clutter up our thoughts with emotions and can no longer hear that little voice inside us that tells us what our next right step will be.
There is a difference between reacting impulsively and acting on your inner voice. You do have the capacity to know yourself well enough to be able to resolve the issue once you learn to trust what you know. Sometimes we make a decision to stay or to leave and then we start second guessing our decision with all these little details. This often indicates fear. We are fearful of being alone or fearful of investing more time. Fear is a great way to perpetuate the situation.
Take action to find your own best interest. Meditate, spend a weekend away from home, or take a long drive with your favorite tunes blaring.
Do the things that speak to you loudly so that you can start listening to your best intentions. Either decision will have consequences, so avoid making a decision based solely on what might happen. Instead, make your decision based on what you know is right for you. That way you will be peacefully content with your decision even if some of the consequences tend to be a bit more unpleasant.
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Wyoming Territorial Prison at Laramie State Park in Laramie was built in 1872. In the north wing there were just 42 cells 14 cells on each of the three levels. The cells were small with arched ceilings and iron gate doors. When there was overcrowding two inmates had to share a cell. Inmates here were convicted of offenses ranging from stealing to manslaughter. Since no capitol offenders were sent here at this prison there were no executions.
In 1884 there were only 10 inmates at this prison so plans were made to expand the place so that Federal Authorities would not close it down. By 1889 the prison had doubled in size. There were more cells a new dining room had been added as well as a chapel/activity room and another wing the south wing. In the south wing on the 2nd floor 12 women inmates were housed; two cells were set up as their living quarters and a third cell as their bathroom. The first floor of the south wing held 42 cells on three tiers. Not having enough guards there was a great number of escape attempts.
When the Wyoming Territorial Prison became over-crowded again plans were made for a larger prison in Rawlins. In 1903 when the new prison opened the Territorial Prison was converted to become the Agricultural Experiment Station. It remained so for 60 years and then in 1989 the farm land and the prison itself were bought and restored to become a state park and museum. One can take a walking self tour of the prison.
During the years it was the Wyoming Territorial Prison disciple was strict. Prisoners had to wash at least twice a week do their own laundry make their own clothes cook keep things neat and clean and learn a useful skill to be able to use once they were released. As a young man Butch Cassidy spent some time here for stealing. Rehabilitation of course didnt work for him and he returned to a life of crime. Violence here was at a minimum so there were only two isolation cells. In 1893 one inmate was killed during an escape attempt. There were doctors on contract to take care of sick inmates. Terminally ill patients were pardoned and sent home to be with their families and to die there. Only one man died in prison from a heart attack Julius Greenwelch.
This man Julius Greenwelch would never realize his dream of becoming successful in the cigar business. In the 1890s he was a cigar maker from Provo Utah who traveled around Wyoming selling fine cigars. He found a market for his cigars in Evanston Laramie Cheyenne and Sheridan. Before and even after he got married he would visit a bordello in Evanston Wyoming before returning to Provo. In 1897 he arrived at his favorite bordello to find his wife Jennie working there. It may have been perhaps to earn some spending money or perhaps to get even with her husband for his infidelity. Whatever the case may be when Julius arrived at the bordello and saw Jennie there he shot her on the spot. This earned him a 2nd degree murder conviction and a life-time stay at the Wyoming Territorial Prison. He began his sentence on September 29th 1897 in the north wing in a third tier cell. He was allowed to set up a cigar making operation to bring in some money for the prison funds. A couple of years later he died of a heart attack.
In 1989 during major renovation and restoration work some of the cells were removed to make room for doorways and historical exhibits. One of those cells that was removed was Julius Greenwelchs cell. This may have “awakened” the mans spirit and so the entity of Julius continued with his work. Throughout the north wing whiffs of cigar smoke may be smelled. While restoration was going on workmen would find their hammers drills and saws missing then turning up in strange places. Julius has appeared in the doorway where his cell used to be in front of small groups of tourists or staff.
St. Marks Episcopal Church is located on Central Avenue in Cheyenne. The main part of the church was built in 1868. Then in 1886 people decided they wanted their church to look impressive sort of like the great British churches with large bell towers. So a foundation for the bell tower was sunk 15 ft. deep to be able to support the 60 ft. massive structure that would be built. However the building of the tower came to a stop for a long time because the masons working on the tower disappeared.
Then the building began anew and finally the tower was finished in 1927 with a room added just below the 11 carillon bells weighing 20 tons. In the special room a chandelier hangs from the ceiling and the room can only be reached by climbing an 85 ft. spiral stairway which begins in the church basement.
What happened in 1886 Two Swedish immigrant masons had been hired to do the job. The tower was only partially built when the two men disappeared. The churchs rector Father Rafter stopped by one morning to inquire if any more material were needed. He noticed that only one mason was there and that mason appeared to be n
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Random Thought of the Day
Sadly troubles arise since adult males say the words so rarely and gals site undue importance on listening to their males say the love content. But the magic words can save a romance when it hits rock bottom or can even get you out of trouble. But bear in head fellas it’s okay to say it after you imply it but not so frequently it has no worth.
