Some Secret Fears of Commitment That Keep Him Distant

Men are often very difficult to understand. Does he love you or not? Why won’t he commit to you? Is he committed to you? Here are some of their secret fears:

Fear 1: That your exciting relationship will become boring and mundane

Relationship do take a lot of work. If you coast along then what was once and exciting and fun relationship can become boring and stale overnight. A lot of men make look at their parents relationships and see them as very boring. Men don’t want to end up in a boring relationship so make a lot of effort to show him that your relationship will never end up like that. Surprise him with presents, notes, exciting things to do or even just a hug. 

Fear 2: That you’ll turn into the girlfriend from hell

Men have a great fear of the girlfriend/wife from hell. They’ve all seen her on TV or maybe their friends have a girlfriend from hell. Even if you are literally the most wonderful girl in the world right now all men have a secret fear that you might go crazy. The way to alleviate this fear is to not try and control him. Let your man do what he wants when he wants. You are a very important part of his life, but not everything to him and you have to understand that. So don’t worry to much if he doesn’t call, you have to trust your man unless he gives you a concrete reason not too. 

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Further Reading

http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/InsidePage.phpid=2000009155&cid=4
6 May 2010. Now John Githongo is becoming ‘Mr Right’ to the woman of his dreams and is going to great length to do it in characteristic style

http://comedians.jokes.com/broken-lizard/videos/jay-chandrasekhar—dvd-exclusive—becoming-a-woman
Jay Chandrasekhar – DVD Exclusive – Becoming a Woman. Jay Chandrasekhar is having a crisis with his manhood.. Paul Soter – Vivid Dream. Paul Soter is being incredibly defensive for someone who supposedly hasn’t done anything.

http://www.berean.com/firstchapter.aspmode=view&index=1032
If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and endeavors. But you can move closer to becoming that woman if you advance confidently in

http://www.christianbookpreviews.com/christian-book-titles.php
11 Sep 2001. Becoming the Woman I Want to Be: A 90-Day Journey to Renewing Spirit Soul & Body by Donna Partow . Becoming the Woman of His Dreams: Seven

http://www.ocregister.com/articles/berendsen-264684-says-camp.html
3 Sep 2010. So Berendsen decided to follow his dream if only he could figure. “The woman literally threw me out of her office: ‘Every writer comes

http://blinkytreefrog.livejournal.com/80660.htmlpage=4
22 May 2005. I discovered a book by the name of “On Becoming a Woman”.. who plays World Of Warcrack should read the section on “Second-Hand Day-dreams”. it’s all on the woman to dress properly and curtail his own desires.

Submitted Questions

Help with writing… Would you read more
Pepita Gonzalez lied to 20 million girls women and too-curious men every day. It was okay because she lied to herself too and she got paid to do it.

It was 2:15 in the morning and Pepita stared at her desktop guzzling her coffee and savoring the remaining moments of sanity before the emails would start pouring in.

This week her desktop featured a tornado the funnel looming over the photographer like a drunk abusive parent. Pepita heard that the photographer who died moments after snapping the picture had dreamed of becoming famous for his weather photography. His tragically romantic death resulted in his dream coming true.

Pepita loved this story even though she knew it was partially untrue.

Around the tornado curled a picket fence like white railroad tracks navigating through the debris. It had been taken directly from a video game ad that Pepita’s design agency had designed.

Still she told the story of the twister’s photographer to her friends. Just because the fence wasn’t real didn’t mean the story was false. To her it was like a movie: just because the characters were fake didn’t mean she couldn’t feel the emotions of the story.

An incoming email made the inbox flash at the bottom of the funnel cloud. Then there were three new emails. Four. Pepita clicked open her mailbox covering up the twister.

There were six high-priority emails each with a single attachment: a high-res photo of a gorgeous underwear model. Gorgeous covered with acne and moles staring with vacant eyes and posing with protruding ribs. Pepita had a lot of work to do…

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If you aren’t interested – tell me why!

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If you read the rest let me know what you think. Were any parts confusing Did you have to re-read anything a few times to figure out the meaning Do you have any questions about it or personal insight on the subject

Thanks for the feedback!
Yeah Lynci this is an edit of the first draft – the previous one was a little meandering and unfocused… more of an exercise… and this one was rewritten to focus more on a point.

It feels more like a short-story to me than a full story… but now that I think about it I could develop her character and throw in some conflict. I mean she totally broke the law sending out the pics before retouching them… what would happen if she got caught Or worse what if the designer sent the wrong files to the printers and all of the finals ended up in the magazines and the billboards Hmmmmm…. Possibilities….

I really liked the idea of your story! I read the rest and really liked it you have a talent for description! The only thing I would change is your main character’s name it doesn’t seem to fit her.

Random Thought of the Day

Exhibit pride in things you have but really don’t be considered a brat about it. Just allow him notice you for the beneficial qualities that you have acquired. Should you use a actual asset improve it if you might be very good at anything share it with him.