Men are difficult to understand, which is why I’m here. I’m a man and I’m here to help you understand the workings of the male mind.
Now you women all want a quality man, I take it? To get one you must have some deal breakers, thing that you won’t accept from a man, no matter how good looking or charming he is. In this instance I can tell you one thing about understanding men. There much more likely to fall in line with what you want if you set it out as a deal breaker. If they believe that if they don’t compy you will leave them, then they will comply. You can’t be wishy washy about these things, you have to be strong.
Examples of deal breakers might be:
- Cheating – Not doing his share of the housework
- Not contributing his share of the finances (him being unemployed for example)
- Emotional support (being there for you when you need him)
- Sex
- Children
- Love
- Abuse (Physically, emotionally or any other sort of abuse)
- A smoker
- Does drugs or drinks a lot
- Wants children or doesn’t want children
Any of these and plenty more could be a deal breaker for you. You have to be 100% that it is a deal breaker. For example if you don’t like smoking but really like the guy you could just ask him to smoke outside. However it may be that you’ve smoked in the past and wouldn’t want to fall back into the habit. In that case it’s a line in the sand. It’s the cigarettes or you.
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Further Reading
http://toolkit.endabuse.org/Resources/UnderstandingMen.html
5 Sep 2004. “Understanding men’s health and illness: a gender relations approach to policy research and practice.” Journal of American College Health
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The first step is to understand the passages that men go through after age 40 and then to discover within the new map of men’s lives how you can travel
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Submitted Questions
What is the worst dating advice you have ever received
What is the worst dating advice you have ever received (doesn’t matter from who).
Don’t say dating advice on Yahoo Answers. It has to be from reputable person.
‘You can’t date until you’re married.’
Yep thanks love you dad.
Random Thought of the Day
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